Wednesday, May 13:The Day Before and The Day After

Good day to all you seekers travelers. Hope you're safe I'm saying that because it was a horrible development

Getting Coffee

An Amtrak train derailed last night around 1030. I watch the morning news and it was quite the horrific sight.

At least 7 people have died and eight others are critically injured.

Fairmount Ave

They discovered the seventh totality under the rack. Today's been a very busy day but not quite as frantic

Constructgion

as I've grown as I feared. There was an incident with them and yelling older gentleman came

Army Man Takes Care Of Business

screaming and singing at $25,000 on his card. My friend Pete stood the man down and he just turned around and left. But it didn't cause a panic. People on understandably the store by the lack of safety and security in our office.

Can You Believe This was 30 Years Ago

A Real Safety Issue @ Work!!!!!!!

Today  May 13, 2015 marks the 30th anniversary of the move disaster at 6221 Osage Ave. 30 years ago 

I just graduated college and was back home when I saw the block burning. I was at my parents house

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in Horsham at the time the 1985 well, at work  i put the hustle on at work. I was asked to be one of the

Home

stewards and I accepted. I got a lot of work done before I left. I then went to my appointment at 1420

Sunset

Walnut St. It went well. I had a 530 appointment and decided afterwords to not go to group. I became

Winning Shot at the Bishops

really tired and came home. And said hi to Sharon and she was doing a couple more customers better shot.

May 12 Amtrak Derailment

I think came home and took a wonderful nap. Three hours later I woke up and sharing it just come home from work and we decided to go to

Investagtion

bishops. I had a wonderful chili and we had a good conversation. I think gathered up some laundry

and realize that I had never unpacked my bag from when I last went to the West Coast. All the clothes were clean fortunately and I told him the same ones with me in my suitcase. I went to bed very late and have to get up at 4 AM tomorrow morning. Note the Photo of the Steps is taken by Pat. He now likes to take photos like me. He posts them on Facebook. He is not bad at all. He just needs a better smartphone camera. He really wants to quit his job in a big way. We will see what happens. Sharon is in good sprits while she plans the next location of her salon.

What Kind of Man does a Woman Want: A Discussion

I Nice response. Most "tools" do not have a lobby group nor arouse political fights. If we as country were as

My Head is Exploding

vigilant about privacy, education and poverty like we are with guns, that would be a help. Gus as an issue are used by politicians to divide and conquer and rip off the American public.
Bad Boys. I think I found out the underlying reason women like bad boys. The word is safety. See this direct quote for the insight I would not come up with.

Not getting ANY Younger

Ok, so here's the thing y'all guys don't "get"...girls and women are targets. Don't get me wrong, I know not all men are dangerous or bad to women. Fact is, a woman with a man to protect her is safer and less of a target. I was divorced, I bought my own home in a "blue collar neighborhood, and was thrilled and proud. I had wonderful neighbors, mostly men, who helped me care for my place, and during hurricanes and I miss them all. But not all the men around there were good men. Having a good strong man, and money are far safer for a woman just trying to make it on her own.

There you have it my friends. I think this is the underlying reason that many, not all, woman crave a bad boy. God bless the internet. So the topic of

Guns and bod boys do tie in nicely don't they. Here is the woman's response to my "bad boys' comment:

My previous point was more about the reality of safety and bad people, men or women, who see single women as a far easier target than a woman with a man walking with her, living with her, etc. Perhaps I'm just biased from my personall experiences.

Here is my response to her.

Yes, I get that. I remember going on a date about 2 years ago with a woman who said said my hands felt soft and she usually dated men who worked with their hands. She also liked being told what to do by a man. I did not put words in her mouth. This stuff was said by the woman.  I am NOT saying this about all women but its a noticeable trait that I have seen before. Fact is I am interested in a woman I get along as friends with and she respects me etc. I just have this feeling when she gets out of her personal funk, the next boyfriend will be of the "bad boy" variety. I speak of Bad Boys as an archetype not wife beaters and cheats. (though they do exist).  If a man is too nice, he is seen as a pushover. Woman do like a challenge and some push back from "their man" that term seem so Tammy Wynette to me at times. I was married for 20 years and I admit I let my wife push me around and I accept that as a fault of mine.  In this day and age some sex roles STILL seem to NEED to be in place to keep security in this society. I am not going to just sit her and tilt at windmills and defy nature of the social compact. I have been alive for almost 53 years and this is what life has shown in my eyes from MY perspective. I just have to let it go and move on. That issue is mine alone. I still I  have an opinion just like any putz trying to make his way.  I appreciate your insights in the mind and psyche of the modern American Woman

Well I've noticed just freeze you can keep an old flame down baby. I let the woman speak for themselves for I have no idea!